5 Worship Misconceptions

“Worship was great today”. We’ve all heard this and probably also said it…and most of the time we mean “the band was awesome” or “I really liked the songs they played.” This has been true for me at least.

I often incorrectly measure the quality of worship using those elements. I processed this with some of our worship team members and wanted to share some of the misconceptions we uncovered in our understanding of worship.

Worship is music.

Worship is the the willful and humble submission, or obeisance, to the Father. As Romans 21:1 says, we are “to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God- this is your spiritual act of worship.” It is a lifestyle.

In our church services or worship gatherings, “worship” usually refers to the music set. Our purpose in life becomes compartmentalized into the 20 minutes before the message and the closing song. What about prayer, the message, and application? Those don’t count?

Music is of course an incredible venue for worship. Throughout scripture, God meets his people and is glorified through our praises. We draw close through music…it touches our hearts and brings understanding that other mediums can’t. While music is a part of how we express worship and experience God, it by no means defines it.

Worship is for our enjoyment.

I so often center worship around myself: how I felt during the set. If I enjoyed it and “got” something from it, then it was an awesome worship session. By definition, worship is willful submission to God. The priority is glorification and obedience, not enjoyment. Enjoyment is a byproduct, and should be put in its rightful place. Instead of coming to gain from a worship gathering, we should be coming to give.

Worship is a feeling.

We often reduce worship to the feelings we experience. Watch TV or movies, and you’ll see love treated the same way. When “we’ve lost that lovin’ feelin” we assume it just wasn’t meant to be. Worship isn’t a feeling, its a state of being…sometimes its emotional but sometimes its not. Often deep, intimate times of worship bring about intense feelings, but deep emotions in themselves don’t equal worship. Feelings come and go, but the call to worship is constant. Authentic worship doesn’t stop with our senses.

Worship is easy.

No, its not. We have to work at it. We are to worship in feast and famine. Job worshipped through his trials. shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego worshipped in the furnace, and Stephen worshipped while he was being stoned. It takes sweat, endurance, and faith. We must persist out of obedience, even when it hurts.

Conditions have to be perfect.

I am so guilty of this…The conditions have to be perfect for me to engage. The music set better be diverse and awesome, the guitarist better nail the Brewster solo, and there better be a short line at the church cafe so I an get my caffeine fix. I better be in a good mood  and have had good week at work if I’m going to engage with God.

If there is a slightest deviation from my list of conditions, my ability to worship goes out the window. I can be so fickle! ITS NOT ABOUT ME. When our faithfulness is contingent upon on environment, feelings, enjoyment, and ease of participation, we will never experience the depth and intimacy Christ calls us to. Who then are we to set the terms? We must abandon ourselves in pursuit of God.

So what do we do with this? How do we move forward? We must follow in the steps of Christ. We need to remove these preconceived assumptions from our understanding of worship. We need to open ourselves up to God’s truth and allow it to change the way we live. We must seek and worship God in and through all things. We must come to  glorify God, not seek personal gain from our worship gatherings. Our understanding grows deeper as we press into God’s character and Word. As Matthew 6:33 says,  seek His kingdom and His righteousness. It is through this pursuit that our worship will blossom from a service to a lifestyle.

So these are my observations. What are some of yours? Thoughts?

  • dara

    this is awesome! thanks ryan! it really opened my eyes to all the misconceptions of worship that I have in my own life.

  • GN

    I recently read this in “Sitting at the Feet of Rabbi Jesus”:

    “Would it surprise you to learn that the rabbis thought that study, and not prayer, was the highest form of worship? The pointed out that when we pray, we speak to God, but that when we study the Scriptures, God speaks to us.”

  • Timg

    Thanks Ryan, this is exactly what I’ve been trying to get across to our ‘worship’ team over the last 18 months – especially phrases like ‘let’s now come into a time of worsip’ which really means, sings slow songs. really liked the bit about how we want conditions to be perfect for us to engage.

  • Jose

    This is Amazing!! Sometimes we’re used to coming to receive and get something from or worship time. We feel like if we dont turn into tears or feel super emotional our worship time was a failure. When true worship is ALL about Him! We were created by Him and for Him!

  • Barry

    Hi Ryan:

    I’ve been leading ‘musical worship’ for 25 years, and there is always more to think about and learn. Thanks for your insights and serving our Lord.

    Barry
    Portland, Or

  • http://ryanaxtell.com Ryan Axtell

    I totally agree, Barry… We never “arrive” but are always growing and learning. Thanks for your years of service!

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